In the small city of Vrindavan, India, a staggering 15,000 to 20,000 widows, predominantly hailing from West Bengal but representing diverse regions across the country, grapple with a harsh reality. Forced out of their homes, these vulnerable women, mistreated both physically and mentally by their own children and spouses, find themselves seeking refuge in the streets. A fortunate few manage to secure a place in specialized homes designed to cater to the unique needs of widows.
Notably, Maitri Ashram, a beacon of hope in this landscape, was established by Winnie Singh in 2007. Here, these widows, affectionately called 'mata' or mothers, undergo a poignant transformation. Initially arriving at the ashram, shelter home, burdened by profound sadness, depression, and isolation, they gradually rediscover confidence, companionship, love, and, above all, their self-respect in the camaraderie of others who share similar stories.
The plight of widows in India is exacerbated by deep-rooted cultural norms. Traditional expectations dictate that widows renounce pleasure and enjoyment after their husbands' passing, confining them to a life centered around worship. Clad in white attire and abstaining from celebrations, widows are often viewed as bearers of misfortune, subjected to societal prejudice and deemed inferior. The loss of a spouse results not only in a stripped identity but also in economic hardship, pushing these women into the margins of society. Though the central government has launched Vidhwa Pension Yojana (Widow Pension Yojana) which is Rs 1000 (12 USD) per month many of the widow are not even able to get the advantage of such plan due to loss of proper documentation.